Refrain from speaking like this to the children before and after the board result, otherwise…

Your friend has got 99 percent marks and one is you.., we spent so much money on you, you wasted everything, what will you show in the society… Those whose children’s 10th and 12th board results are about to come Avoid such taunts. Because numbers are not bigger than life. If your beloved takes such a scolding to heart, then there may be a problem. Counselors are advising Parent Result Neither be under stress about yourself nor let the children pick you up. Talk to them lovingly about the result. It would be better to keep the atmosphere of the house as normal as normal days before the result comes.

Let it be decided that you cannot change the result that is coming. So discuss the option with the kids. Meaning if one door is closed then what is the other way. CBSE and UP Board Including board results of many states are about to be released. In such a situation, we talked to the experts about how to keep the children and the home environment away from the stress of the result.

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What does psychiatrist Dr. KC Gurnani say?

1. When the child is falling while walking on the road, we handle him instead of scolding him. In the same way, if the result is bad, instead of scolding it, handle it.

2. Put examples of great personalities who fail first and then succeed in front of the children.

3. Do not leave the child alone after the result.

4. As soon as you feel that the child’s behavior is changing, then contact the psychiatrist and counselors.

5. Before the result comes, talk with the child on his option, not on the target already set.

6. Do not break what you promised to give to the child after getting a good result. Give it less than that or after some time. Otherwise, along with the bad result, this thing also stings in the mind of the child.

7. The human mind is never satisfied. This is the reason that sometimes toppers also commit suicide.

Sociologist Prof. Dr. Mohammad Arshad’s advice

Whatever the result of the child, encourage him, do not scold him.

2. Do not compare your son or daughter with other children when the result is bad.

3. Keep the atmosphere of the house normal when the result is bad. Discuss about the result only after a few days.

4. Some people start making pressure on the child to do better in future. Don’t do this at all. Let the kids be normal for some time.

5. When the result is bad, parents start thinking what others will think. You assure yourself that my child’s result has come well and in the coming time, more hard work has to be done with the child.

6. Know one thing very well that not every child in the school can be a topper.

7. One thing is also certain that the result of the child has no role in making or spoiling the social reputation.

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